A couple in Tantric shares their painful experience with Agama Yoga: a call to examine all Tantric teachings for Misogyny

We graduated from Agama / Yoga at Koh Phangan in Thailand, I am not surprised by recent accusations leveled by Swami Vivekananda (Narcis Tarcau) and some of the senior teachers of the school. Most of the things shared by Be Scofield's article are consistent with our personal experience when female crime Agama Yoga founder, Swami · Vivekananda · Salawawati · sexual assault, goes to Agama . Our sorrows and love are all harmed by the teachings and actions of Mithroneism by teachers of all Tantra of men and women who internalized and deeply innocent sexist ideas of Narcis ("Swami") and harmful People. We are sorry to see the extent of harm given to communities and friends. Also I am convinced that these complaints will eventually appear in light. I am grateful to the brave people of the # MeToo movement and not surprised to see the spiritual teacher that finally fulfilled the responsibility for years of sexual abuse.


As a Tantra teacher or practitioner, we need to disclose and add to this discussion a lot. INTRODUCTION ... There are many teachings that we are personally useful in the process of healing and spiritual awakening. Some of these teachings found in Agama and others have been found elsewhere. We are not throwing out the baby with the water in the bathroom. Focusing on the energetic flow during yoga practice, exercise away from yoga as an exercise to yoga as preparation for meditation, its own spiritual way, sacred sex sense, trauma to the body rather than head Understanding that the energy line (called Naddy in the yoga tradition) is a physical fascia, understanding of the influence of sexual assault on the body, mind, heart and soul and sexual shame ... All things are worth retaining.

Those that are not valuable are not only respect for men's "Swami" but also not in accordance with the teaching method over 10,000 years ago. I believe that women are "lower" than women, healing women (many already already experiencing sexual assault) by placing male sexual desire above women's intuition, male sex Projecting responsibility for the desire to the women they attract, strengthening the character of the lower chakras and men, identifying women of the same level on sexual discrepancies, homosexuals are destroyed by women loved The idea of ​​wanting to "surrender" the idea of ​​"being committed by God" has been repeated and accepted well. (Quote in other words David dada) ... These ideas are well incorporated into neonatal and new generation communities. They are widespread and exist in almost all Tantric schools in the world and they are definitely harmful and incorrect.

Agama has been spending several years since speaking that we refine the revealed teachings, change it and offer it to the world fun. This process is painful and difficult for us and spits out contempt for women from informative teachings. They are terribly intertwined and sometimes subtlely intertwined and are often in harmony with the contempt for Judeo-Christian sex and the femininity we are stepping into in the Western world. The fragments of absorbed toxic weapons In our era, we studied not only with Agama but also with other new era teachers and communities, and lived in a mainstream culture. The war against sexuality and the feminine thing among all human beings has only one goal of making people and nature slaves.

For years we have changed our relationships with ourselves. In order to disclose our personal journey weakly, we met in the summer of 2012 and became a lover in November of that year. We tell us that the use of condoms "hinders the flow of energy" and that we are concentrating on using sex as a means of enlightenment, in the new era, under the unwavering shake of neo · tanrek, condoms We did not use. We have also been devoted to the polyamory relationship styles that are encouraged by Agama but are not isolated to that school or invented by that school. Our loved ones were also in Arama, or those in Agama. All of us generally followed the same rules. Sean contracted with Chlamydia from a lover he had contracted with a lover. I also learned at Agama. Sean gave it to Deva where the body responded intensely without knowing it, bleeding, examining and treating everyone who treated.
Over the years, we struggled to build a loving, caring and stable relationship with the teaching we learned about Polyamory and Tantra. We have discovered that toxicity situations that have greatly damaged the foundation of our relationship have been tested over and over again. We have tied up relationships and have pursued various treatments and training, including working with therapists of Hendrick's Method. We strongly recommend to everyone who is recovering from toxic newborn tantalum. Through miracles, love and diligence, our relationships survive, but we are paying valuable prices for all of this.


One of the things that brought us together was mutual desire to become parents. In Agama, it was taught that pregnancy is easy to ejaculate to "clean the pipe" once, then it will be easy to make a boom after one or two days thereafter. I am pregnant. For those who do not know, a Tantric male aims to separate orgasms from ejaculation and to avoid ejaculation altogether. Sean was practicing the avoidance of ejaculation taught as Brahmacharya in Agama. This is a word applied singularly frequently in the ascetic (non-tantric) tradition. Sean was practicing Brahmacharya for about 4 years when we tried to become pregnant. Four years after he was not ejaculating, the sperm spawning was very few and there was no swimming either. We had doubts about highly sophisticated modern medicine so we wasted valuable time even if we did not go to the exam specialist for a year and a half. Then we got to know the state of Sean.

We combined acupuncture, supplements and periodic ejaculation to restore the health of semen. Within a few months, the sperm count and motility were within normal range, just after Deva got pregnant. At the age of 39, she had a miscarriage. This is not unusual. We tried again and got pregnant soon. The second pregnancy was ectopic, not having been placed in the uterus, she was ruptured during the trip and almost died, as a result of treatment refusal at Sadlebach Memorial Hospital, as a result of her absence from Irvine, California Life was saved by Kaiser's doctor in Irvine but she had postoperative bleeding and could not receive treatment as a result of medical trauma, bleeding caused extensive internal scarring and her possibility of seeing the nature lost.

I do not know if Chlamydia infection caused extrauterine pregnancy, but I can see that such pelvic infections often lead to sterility. Less than 1% of all women experience miscarriage and experience extrauterine pregnancies directly. We have not seen Deva never give birth in the past few years, never saw the children growing alive, laughing, never seeing parents and myself alike, who they were . This real sorrow is difficult for many to understand, but it is a lifetime loss that we experience everyday. These losses never disappear. There is no exchange and never goes back.
The idea that what we obey to the teachings of Agama has contributed to our experience of infertility and child loss plagues us. We have a sense of responsibility at the same time, we are disconcerting, being foolish and disillusioned. Much of what we taught in Aga has been flying in the face of science for centuries for decades. The antipathy to science leads to the teaching of Agama. Use of condoms is not recommended. Muktananda (Khushru) who knows that we are a familiar person, but he is saying or does not allow much of what he has sent, from getting HIV from unprotected sex from Ko Phangan It is a seemingly impossible task to Bangkok. He strongly disregarded all the risks of STI. Many teachers encouraged the use of condoms in schools, but at least people who urged people to decide themselves should not have to use condoms at all times because they all have 3 to 5 lovers at all times It was. Simply multiplying how much lovers of your enthusiasts love this exposure, at least one will reject the inspection of Chlamydia repeatedly and will become "Swami" who can easily see the problem. In addition to that that every time someone contracts STI, the general consensus at Agama was to create it by "resonating with the energy of sexual shame", Deva Shut down the HIV eventually hit the school. Well, that was not HIV. It was rape.

So, there is a revelation that violence and sexual assault, not surprisingly, were systemic with Agama. Many of the women in Be Scofield's articles are our friends and loved ones. How we recklessly learn what they have been treated, despising and disregarded to know the degree of their wounds. We are angry, disgusting, deeply sad. We knew that things were not right, we did not talk loudly earlier. We were very transparent about the other aspects of the relationship, but we did not publicly acknowledge the way Arama's teaching hurt us and seems to have robbed our children from us. We apologize for not being honest about this earlier. To hide this information is what we feel a lot and emotions concerning liberation are mixed.


As a couple, to form a relationship based on deep love and respect, to love each other well and to help other people heal from sexual violence and shame wounds, sacredness inherent in everything In order to contribute to the world that respects the compatibility between masculinity and femininity, in order to eradicate the omission of all feminine, sexual exploitation, manipulation, and self-fulfillment, we are working with Tantra and I am concentrating on continuing to examine the teachings of Neotantra using. For this reason, Sean dedicatedly chooses not to offer a direct sex healing session to women, as Tantra men think that there are too many opportunities to confuse their sexual desire and insert them. Did. Rather, he decided to teach people how to help heal the loving woman and who formed a loving relationship with respect. Deva reveals unprecedented women's hatred and is committed to insisting on raising sacred ladies and men in mainstream culture. Together we are doing our utmost to promote a respected relationship to respect, sexuality as a tool of healing and enlightenment. We invite you to adapt you and us, and all Tantra teachers to these standards.

In conclusion, as an integral member of Tantric society, we strongly insist on seeing this situation as a red flag, pointing to a number of teachings to dislike women, not a few bad apple problems. Women are expected to surrender and women will be ashamed or manipulated by women to agree to sex with Tantric Gurus and blame the women for the pain left behind. Throughout our culture, women need to examine all ways to project their sexual energy responsibilities to women. Swami says that many women have big muradara (which includes a lot of enthusiasts because he has a basic or first chakra, including him) more secular "what she wore" . It is insulted by men to imply that men can not control sexual energy, and the body, mind, spirit and soul condemned by male sexual desire - assault - are harmful to women.

Narcis Tarkau is very sick. He is not a true Swami. This was obvious for us several years ago. But if you make this only for him and other "monsters" like him, you can not change something effectively. Belief system that teaches that women are secondary to men, Shiva is conscious and eternal, Shakti is material and illusion, as long as divinity is inferior to women, women like to serve men While men provide living energy that men direct, men provide direction and have been "killed" by sex with men ... On the other hand, or else As long as these beliefs are kept in our hearts and minds, we are obsessed with all human beings' harm. We have to change, those who have to take responsibility, those who have to cast every breath for the world based on true love

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